5 Behaviors That Make a Guy Look Desperate

@Dating_Dynamics on X had some great ideas recently on desperation. I wanted tease these out a little. Remember, starving the simp in your life begins with knowing what behaviors to eliminate. Here are the top five: 1. Not Knowing When to Quit This isn't a sales gig

Four Reasons Men Won't Approach Women First

You know the story. You belly up to a bar and some girl starts making eye contact with you. Maybe she smiles, maybe she looks away, maybe she plays with her hair. Either way, she noticed you. What do you do? Here are four reasons why you hesitate to approach

First Date Review: Rock Climbing

Part of the process with becoming a full time man is self-reflection and performance review. This most certainly includes dating. Dating, relationships, marriage — if you don’t treat them with as much importance as any other pursuit in life, you’re only to blame for failures. To that end, I

A Daiquiri, A Sunset Walk, and A Future Wife?

Dating has its ups and downs. Sometimes the market is slow, sometimes it’s hot. The past few weeks have been hot. It's a lot like the waves of the ocean, which is where I was last night while hammering out a review of a recent date while

20 Behaviors That Differentiate Men from Boys

The path to manhood is littered with boyish mistakes. Until you realize this behavior, you’ll have a hard time earning the respect of a high-value woman. Here are the top 20 behaviors that set men apart from boys. 1. Boys Don’t Understand the Importance of Women’s Tests

5 Cognitive Biases That Are Affecting Your Rizz

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve nixed something because of a perception I had long before it ever revealed itself to be true or not. Or how many times I’ve sabotaged a good thing on account of focusing too much on the fear of the

How to Create Sexual Disparity and Why It Matters for Attraction

disparity /dĭ-spăr′ĭ-tē/ noun 1. The condition or fact of being unequal, as in age, rank, or degree; difference.  2. Unlikeness; incongruity.  3. Inequality; difference in age, rank, condition, or excellence; dissimilitude; -- followed by between, in, of, as to, etc. "disparity in, or of, years; a disparity as

Feeling Depressed or Lonely After a Date

I took a woman on a date recently. It was fun, flirty, and memorable. Everything you’d want it to be. She's beautiful. A single mom of teenagers who works from home on a successful business she's built from the ground up. I've only

Plumb Theory: Hope Spurs Motivation in Dating, Performance, and Life

Motivation is about as mysterious as the dark side of the moon. I deal with it all the time as an educator and mentor — constantly trying to find something to motivate my students. Even during graduate school, I read study after study hoping to discover how to tap into the

5 Things You Should Never Do on Dating Apps

The best teacher is often experience, and believe me when I say that I’ve run the gamut on making mistakes in dating — especially using dating apps. There’s no telling how many times I’ve embarrassed myself or shot myself in the foot by being an oaf. But, hey,

The Ultimate Guide to Rizz

So what does rizz mean? And when did Rizz become popular? How do you rizz a girl up? Who invented rizz? Well, we're here to enlighten you (and up your Rizz game).